Love 'um when they sleep

Today has been a no nap day. I hate those days. Why can't they sleep like the days when they were babies? Tony and I disagree over what stage is harder. I think NOW is definitely the toughest. Give me sleep deprivation and milk engorgement over yelling, temper tantrums, fighting, and destruction any day. I miss these days of a few naps a day. Giving up naps is not gonna work for me.